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Прекрасная [livejournal.com profile] parf меня оставила, а у меня как раз материал для нее.

AVEN - asexual visibility and education network. FAQ.

Между прочим, люди с асексуальной самоидетификацией имеют сексуальную (геи, лесби, би, традиционную) ориентацию. И примыкают к гомосексуальному движению.

I've only really been attracted to about three people my entire life but when I was I wanted to have sex with them, would I be sexual or asexual?
...It's likely that sexuality plays a relatively small role in your life, experiencing no attraction toward almost everyone you meet will give you a lot in common with other asexuals.

I'm only really attracted to people after I get to know them, what does that mean?

I don't like being asexual, I want to be normal like everyone else, what can I do?
I'm afraid that there's no evidence to show that it's possible to change someone's sexuality. You can choose to change the way you act upon your desires or lack of desires, but you can't change what your desires are. It is possible for someone's sexuality to drift and change in orientation and intensity with time but this doesn't happen intentionally and doesn't happen to everyone.

The best solution is to learn to be comfortable with who and what you are. You can't change your sexuality and you didn't choose it, but you can accept it.

I enjoy being sexual with my loving partner but I've never really felt driven to have sex with anyone else, could I be asexual?

I can't identify as asexual, what if I find the right person and start being sexual with them?
If you have yet to meet a single person who has aroused you sexually it's pretty safe to say that you have low or no sexual attraction to others...

Date: 2005-05-20 05:01 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] gingema
А, ну я вот всю жизнь знаю, что асексуальна, и хотя один "психолог" (в кавычках он потому, что не могу вспоминать без содрогания, а не потому, что не имеет диплома и имени или денег не берет) убеждал меня, что это очень серьезный изъян, все равно не убедил.

Date: 2005-05-20 07:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] botanic.livejournal.com
она вообще всех покинула
в виде эксперимента кажется

Date: 2005-05-20 07:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] enot.livejournal.com
Все лучше, чем убить дневник.

Date: 2005-05-20 07:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] botanic.livejournal.com
об убитых дневниках - [livejournal.com profile] eremei по моему возродился

Date: 2005-05-20 09:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] parf.livejournal.com
Я тут, тут я. Сохраняйте спокойствие!

Date: 2005-05-20 09:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] enot.livejournal.com
Стараемся. Но немного все ж таки нервничаем.

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